Some women are crazy. Even ones with children. Avoid the psychotic type like the plague. They’ll make your life miserable and drive your kids insane. My brother fell victim to a relationship with a crazy woman. She took advantage of him being a nice guy, bossed his children around, and tried to control his life. His son was mad at him for weeks. It took a trip to Disney World for his son to get over the anger he had towards my brother for bringing that crazy woman into their lives.
Fortunately, for them, the relationship was a headache that only lasted a short period. There were no lingering issues associated with dating her such as stealing money from him or permanently harming the relationship between him and his son. Those things can and do happen if you’re not careful. Date sane women and avoid the following types of women…
She asks too many questions
Women that are interested in a man will ask a lot of questions. They want to know about who you are, what you’re looking for, and where you see yourself in the future so they can determine if you’re worth their time. Women that go beyond the necessary questions they should ask a man probably have trust issues. These women will never trust you no matter what you say because they think every guy is the same as their unfaithful ex.
I’ve dated women that didn’t trust me for this same reason. They just can’t get the fact that their ex cheated on them 5 years ago. The pain still lingers and it continues to rub off on every guy she will date for the rest of her life. Get rid of her before things get serious. She’ll question everything you do and always ask who you’re with. You’re not 16 years old and she’s not your mother. A strong relationship is built on trust. You’ll never have a strong relationship with a woman that refuses to trust anyone.
Her crazy ex affects her behavior
I certainly can sympathize with women that have issues collecting child support from the father or have to deal with a deadbeat baby daddy. There’s really no excuse for a father that refuses to support his children. But if her mood is constantly impacted by things he does or says, she’s going to become a major pain in the butt. The same goes for you. If you have a crazy ex, keep the issues between you and the ex to yourself. The only downside to dating a woman with kids is potential problems getting rid of a psycho ex boyfriend.
She starts asking you for money
RED FLAG! She has “diapers to buy and baby daddy won’t give me any money for them”. That’s where you come into play – if you’re a sucker. You would be surprised by how many women sign-up for single parent dating sites with poor intentions. They’re struggling financially and the father of their child is a deadbeat. So they look for a man online that will give them money to cover some expenses. All the while, they’re buttering you up, acting like they really like you. They don’t like you. They like your money.
Emotions sometimes get the best of us. When we start to fall for a woman, we make careless decisions based on that affection. Our minds work in mysterious ways. For example, you’re smart enough to know that a woman you barely know asking for money is just taking advantage of you. But you might fall for her trap simple because you’re thinking with your heart and not your head. Just stick to this rue, NO MATTER WHAT – unless you’re in a committed relationship with a woman you trust, NEVER give her any money for any reason. Period.