“The worst thing she can do is break my heart. What do I have to lose?”
There are so many flaws in the above statement. If she breaks your heart, it’s going to bother you for a while. But like most sane human beings, you’ll get over it in time. When you’re a single Dad, she can do more harm than just to your emotions. A crazy woman can dry your bank account or, even worse, ruin your family. It’s often difficult to spot a potentially harmful woman from her online profile, but these 4 early signs indicate you’ll be lucky if she ONLY breaks your heart…
She continually asks you for money early on in a relationship
A smart, greedy woman knows how to spot a sucker. They also know how to convince that sucker to give them money without making it obvious they’re using you. They ask for small amounts a couple of times a week. The money almost always comes with a favor in return (i.e. sex) or no guy would continue giving them money. Don’t give any woman money early on in a relationship. What kind of self-respecting woman asks for money from a man she barely knows? “Can you put some gas in my car? I don’t have any money until payday and my tank is on empty” once seems harmless. It usually turns into twice. Then three times, four times, etc.
She starts bossing your kids around
Your kids are your kids – not hers. One day, if the relationship becomes serious and you’re ready for marriage, she can become a step-mother. Until then, the relationship she has with your kids should be nothing more than a mentor, a friend, and someone they can go to for advice. Discipline and things of that nature are your responsibility for now. A woman that tries to run the household early on in a relationship is far too controlling. Your kids will start to hate her.
She has no problem putting out on a first date
Let’s face it – when things go well on a first date, our hormones often get the best of us. But a strong-willed woman with high self-esteem won’t allow a first date to end with sex. Few lasting relationships started with sex on a first date. There’s always one (or both) partners that become far too attached to someone they slept with on a first date. Unfortunately, this attachment turns to heartbreak because of what I just said about these types of relationships not lasting.
She has a crazy ex that she won’t stop talking about
I’m going to let you in on a little secret about some women. There are certain females that absolutely love being treated like garbage, even though it drives them insane. They’re very immature and should be avoided at all costs. If she’s constantly complaining about how bad her ex treated her – and still does – and then mentions how she tried to leave him for 3 years but kept coming back to him, get rid of her IMMEDIATELY!
She’s a psycho and she will dump you faster than you can say, “will you marry me?” because you refuse to treat her like garbage. Women like this are emotional train wreck’s, immature, and horrible mothers. Stay away from her and the other 3 types of women above. You’ll thank for it!